Tag: Anonymous

Dear Master- I like a man. We went on a date. I thought it went well. He made passes at me and continues to. However, he keeps avoiding answering my offer for a second date. Why?


Ask my muse for romantic advice.

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“Darling, he is ill-prepared fo the full spectrum of your majesty.  He wants a quick buggering and he wants you to gratify him immediately, without concern for your needs.  Turn the tables on him, and play aloof, and see if he’s willing to work harder for all the wonderful things you have to offer.  Do NOT settle.” 

Listen to “And love said no” by HIM, think of Thoschei and hate me la…. thank me later, i meant.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GBQOqNhQ92U

And loves light blue
Led me to you
Through all the emptiness that had become my home
Love’s lies cruel
Introduced me to you
And that moment I knew I was out of hopeKill me
I begged and love said no
Leave me
For dead and let me go
Kill me
I cried and love said no
Kill me
I cried and love said no

*STARES INTO THE CAMERA*   WHAT DID I DO TO DESERVE THIS PAIN 

I get what that anon was saying. My dash was flooded with support for your abilities to play Thirteen before you even did and that was on your Master blog. Thirteens who don’t get that massive wave of support would of course feel weird about it and would doubt their portrayals. It wasn’t that you couldn’t play Thirteen.

//Okay, the following reply is LONG, and I don’t mean it to look like I’m telling you off. I appreciate your honesty, even though I would have preferred a private message face-to-face.  But I think I need to reassert some personal boundaries here.  Okay? ❤ Thanks.  

I understand what you’re saying, nonnie: recall that I said that I realized the first anon was not being malicious.  But feelings are feelings, you know? They’re valid even if they’re irrational, so long as you don’t act on them in a way that hurts others. Which I think goes both ways here.  

I don’t mean to be confrontational here, but since you’re pulling this argument back up:

  1. –All of the content on this Master blog that concerned my Thirteen blog was either a) me asking people if they would have interest; b) me asking people’s opinions or aid in making graphics; or c) kind-hearted followers sending me messages, unprompted, about how they would enjoy reading my take on Thirteen.  
  2. –This blog has 500+ followers and I have the right to use it to boost my totally obscure new sideblog, again, if it’s appropriately tagged. 
  3. –I already told the first anon that I’d tag further messages from people about my Thirteen blog, so that they wouldn’t feel uncomfortable. This entire issue was resolved day before yesterday. 

Guys, just as a whole, blog-rules-wise: I don’t want to sound mean, but…. this blog gets a lot of anons that border on policing my content, and it always seems to be about me voicing earnest feelings of sadness or misgiving, critiquing my thought process and essentially telling me that my feelings are somehow “wrong.” 

 And….I don’t think that’s fair?  I don’t think … . I mean, following me is not your job, and it’s not my job to constantly make content that caters to your preferences. Neither you nor I are obligated. You know? 

 I would vastly prefer that you unfollow me if my ooc posts bother you.  I rarely even check my follower count, and I do NOT have any extensions that tell me who’s unfollowed me or when.  I will not harass you for making your own blog space safer and happier.  You have that right.  But so do I. 

It’s one thing for the original anon to make the polite request, which I resolved by offering to tag something more courteously in the future.  It’s another to say that my subsequent feelings are not mine to have.  

If this continues, I will be turning anon off permanently.  😦  I really am sorry for accidentally making someone feel bad.  I’m getting pretty uncomfortable now too. 

*An anon walks up to The Master, stares him right in the face, pulls out a huge-ass pickle from their pocket and a jar of peanut butter, unscrews the lid, sticks the pickle in the peanut butter, takes some almonds out of their pocket and sprinkles them on top of both the pickle and the peanut butter, puts the concoction in his hand, wiggles their eyebrows, and walks away. God only knows if they don’t get killed.*

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Can you keep stuff about your Thirteen blog to your Thirteen blog? Just makes me a little uncomfortable. Nobody really knows Thirteen yet and it makes me really anxious about my portrayal of her, which is why I don’t follow your Thirteen blog. There’s so much support for your Thirteen on my dash already and I have never gotten that much support for mine. I love your Master and don’t want to unfollow…..

//I actually need to keep posting about her to give her publicity (at least while I’m setting her up), but I tell you what, I totally understand where you’re coming from <333 so I will tag it from now on as #thirteenmusings so you can blacklist it.   Hope that helps, friend, and I am sure your Thirteen is marvelous.  People will come to realize that in time. ❤ 

I am moving house THIS week so you probably won’t see any new content anyway, so I hope that’s a respite lol.